Showing posts with label despair. Show all posts
Showing posts with label despair. Show all posts

Thursday, January 22

A Prayer in Haiku Form

Read Job 11:13-18 



Through the dark and low
times I seek YOU ever more.
Help me find YOUR peace.
(original poem © Patrick Norberto 2015)




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Have a wonderful day!
Hope     מקווה     أمل


Friday, January 16

Keep On Keepin' On ...

Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. - Romans 12:12




No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities.  Always see them, for they are always there. ~ Norman Vincent Peale







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Have a wonderful day!
Hope     מקווה     أمل



Saturday, January 10

Let Jesus Lighten Your Load By Rick Warren ~ January 7, 2015

Not so long ago, I shared a meditation from one of my spiritual "guides", the late Henry Nouwen.  Today, I re-post from another of my faith heroes, Rick Warren, author of The Purpose Driven Life and founder/senior pastor of Saddleback Church.  I read The Purpose Driven Life just as I was about to turn 50.

It transformed me.  

I am fairly certain that you would not be reading this blog (by the way, thanks for that) had I never picked up Rick's book.  It took a few years and tons of prayer, but eventually I added this blog to my Faith Journey.  The meditation I share below offered tremendous comfort to me this week just ended.  I am still out of work, my unemployment benefits have dried up and money is scarce.  But, Rick's message reminded me that there is One to whom I can come, any time, for solace and succor.  One who shares my pain, my fears, my despair.  

Even my anger and frustration.

I pray Rick's words comfort you, as well.



“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” 

I don’t know what burden you’re carrying. I don’t know what’s weighing you down. But I do know the answer.

Jesus says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30 RSV).

For many years I never understood that verse, because I didn’t know what a yoke was. When Jesus says, “Take my yoke upon you,” it sounded to me like he was going to give me something else to deal with. I’ve got a heavy enough burden, Lord. I don’t need to take your problems on me.
A yoke is actually a board that has two arches in it that you put over two cattle so they can pull a cart.

The value of a yoke is that it halves the load. Without a yoke, one cow’s got to pull that entire load by itself. But if you yoke up the cow with another cow, then the two cows pull the load together, and the load is half as heavy. 

When Jesus says to take his yoke upon you, he’s not saying he’s going to give you his problems. Jesus doesn’t have any problems! He’s saying he’s going to share your problem. He’s going to share your load. He’s going to take your stress on himself and bear it with you.

Wow!

He says three verbs in this verse: come, learn, and take. Jesus says, “Come to me. Team up with me. Then, learn how I do it. Take on a lighter load. This is going to reduce your stress. This is going to make it easier for you to navigate.”

When you’re yoked with Christ, you move together with him. You move in the same direction and at the same speed. And, you move in the right direction and at the right speed.

Talk It Over

  • Why is it sometimes difficult to accept help from someone who wants to share your burdens and make it easier on you?
  • Do you have people in your life who are willing to do that for you? How are you offering yourself to others to help reduce their stress?
  • God already knows all about your stress. How will you show him that you are ready to take on his yoke?

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Have a wonderful day!
Love     אנגלית     الإنجليزية

Monday, January 5

January Thaw

Even during the darkest, loneliest times hope shines through in the simplest of things.

Like a "baby" pine cone nurtured by an early winter rain.  Waiting to grow into its role as a source of new life.

Let our faith be such as this: quietly, constantly, consistently sustained by Hope, by Faith, by Love and perseverance.

Happy New Year!

May 2015 be abundant with blessings for you and your loved ones.

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Reminder: if you have a prayer need, please click on the Share a Prayer? tab and send it my way.  I will respond.

Have a wonderful day!
Peace     שלום     سلام
   

Tuesday, December 16

A Minor Christmas Digression ... Or Not



For the third year in a row, I will be reading Charles Dickens' A Christmas Carol during the week leading up to Christmas Eve.  It is a story that has been made and re-made, ad nauseum, into big-screen movies and television specials.  For me, all of this cinematic re-telling had diluted the tale.  I wanted to re-visit it, without characterizations of Ebenezer Scrooge, and the rest of the characters, by actors from Alistair Sim to George C. Scott to Marlo Thomas to Patrick Stewart; not to mention the several stage versions I have seen.

Two years ago I grabbed my Kindle and re-read it, decades after my last reading of it.  I rediscovered a tale of tragedy, despair, loss, inexplicable rage and all the other emotions and themes of Dickensian London in the mid-19th Century.

I also found a story of devastating simplicity and purity.  Ultimately, for me, A Christmas Carol is about one man's long, painful road back to salvation and love.  The ending leaves me awash in a wave of spiritually cathartic tears at the end of each reading.

The New Testament tales of Jesus provide us with the kernel of the absolute Truth about God's Love for, and His desire to redeem, us.

Dickens, whether intentionally or not, demonstrates to us, more than 170 years later, what it takes to live a modern life keeping always the essence of Christmas in our hearts.  I believe that one need not be a Christian to live this kind of life.  

Perhaps, just perhaps, it is a lesson that all men and women of good will, and any Faith, can exemplify. 

I have invited the folks in my Cyber sphere (Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, etc.) to read along with me from December 18th through Christmas Eve. We then would have a book club-like conversation about the story beginning on Boxing Day, December 26th.  I will create a page where those conversations can take place.   

In the meantime, happy reading!

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Have a wonderful day!
Peace     שלום     سلام


Saturday, November 1

Enough With the Whining Already!

The Israelites said to them, "If only we had died by the Lord’s hand in Egypt! There we sat around pots of meat and ate all the food we wanted, but you have brought us out into this desert to starve this entire assembly to death." ~ Exodus 16:3      

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When faced with struggles - financial, emotional, with a relationship - do we sound like the Israelites in the desert?  Do we launch a pity party and whine about the unfairness of of it all?  Do we blame others, looking for scapegoats on whom we can dump all of our complaints?

Guilty.  Yep, I have cried in my beer more times than I am proud to admit.  Some may forgive my self-absorbed grumbling quicker than they might the Israelites; after all, they had the Big Guy Himself with them non-stop, as a pillar of fire at night and a column of smoke during the day.  They could see God before them, leading them and nurturing their leaders, first Moses, then Joshua and others.  I have only my fragile faith to sustain me.  I don't have the constant presence of God to lean on.  Right?

Wrong.

God is always with each of us whether or not we acknowledge Him.  In the same way that He rained manna down each morning or led the Israelites to the uncountable flock of quail, God works actively in our lives.  I know He is with me.

A couple of examples which have occurred recently...

During my current state of "being in between fundraising gigs" my wife has been working as an accompanist.  Because of some rather pejorative circumstances she opted to decline an offer to become the full-time music director.  This put her long term status in jeopardy.  Needless to say it created even greater uncertainty about our financial future.  Despite the worry gnawing at my gut and the freak out residing just under the surface of my skin, I reached out to God and placed my worries, and our future, in His hands.

Just a few days later, my wife was offered a temporary gig that will bring some much-needed $$$ into our coffers.  

And, I have started to see some movement on fundraising jobs to which I have applied.

Things are still scary, but with the focus fixed squarely on Him, and doing His Will, finding the courage to keep moving forward is much easier.  

So, let's quit the bitchin' and moaning and place our full trust in Him.

Amen?

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Have a wonderful day!